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So many people have gone through the experience of not feeling good enough.
It feels good that a lot of people from Pakistan have had a good experience in India.
Experience is easy to provide and quickly put to good use by people with all the other qualities.
The problem isn't that people don't understand how good things are. It's that they know, from personal experience, that things really aren't that good.
In my experience, divorce takes you out for about 10 years, but you hear people talk about it lightly. The same with depression. You only have to have one good breakdown before you realize you need help. It's pretty frightening.
Why do people who consider themselves good communicators often fail to actually hear each other? Often it's due to a mismatch of styles: To someone who prefers to vent, someone who prefers to explain seems patronizing; explainers experience venters as volatile.
Normally, most writers don't say, 'I'm going into a mild hypnotic trance.' Typically, they don't know how they do it. Most people, when they have a good experience writing, they're well placed in that state, which is also sometimes called a 'flow state.' If you don't have trouble, you don't have to think about it.