You aren't alive if you aren't in need.

Be Hard on the issue, Soft on the person.

It is true that you get what you tolerate.

Being right can never compete with doing well.

One of the worst things you can die with is potential.

Christianity is not about morality. It's about reality.

Consequences give us the pain that motivates us to change.

The opposite of bad is not good.The opposite of bad is love

True intimacy is only build around the freedom to disagree.

Dating is a place to practice how to relate to other people.

Diligence is not easy, but we can't reach our goals without it.

Love can only exist where freedom and responsibility are operating.

The fool tries to adjust the truth so he does not have to adjust to it.

You will not grow without attempting to do things you are unable to do.

Independence is not an option for us. Remember, God existed without us.

We have our own thoughts, and if we want others to know them, we must tell them.

Confronting an irresponsible person is not painful to him; only consequences are.

Dating is a give and take. If you only see it as "Taking," you are not getting it.

Successful people stick to what they are good at and find ways to make that larger.

Some goals are not going to fulfill you. Choose goals that you value and care about.

The power of being in the physical presence of another person delivers real benefits.

The best way to advance in a career is to get great results while working with people.

When leaders lead in ways that people's brains can follow, good results follow as well.

There's no better way to become a disintegrated character than to be your own authority.

Some people's developmental path has not equipped them to stand up and let go of something.

Anger is frustration at the fact that we are not God, and do not have control over reality.

We all make mistakes, but the people who thrive from their mistakes are the successful ones.

To rescue people from the natural consequences of their behavior is to render them powerless.

People tend to look at dating sort of like a safari - like they're trying to land the trophy.

Spouses in healthy relationships cherish each other's space and are champions of each other's causes.

Values are sometimes worth living and dying for, and are certainly worth dating and breaking up over.

A leader's responsibility is to cause a vision and mission to have tangible results in the real world.

You have to be able to face losing some things you might want in order to be free to do the right thing.

The mature person meets the demands of life, while the immature person demands that life meet her demands.

The amount of truth a relationship can handle is proportional to the amount of perceived love that's present.

A good test of a relationship is how a person responds to the word 'no.' Love respects 'no,' control does not.

Faith goes beyond reason. It goes beyond what you can see. But it is as real as anything you can touch or feel.

Dating should be a part of your life, not your life a part of dating. There is more to life than finding a date.

Boundaries are basically about providing structure, and structure is essential in building anything that thrives.

We need rest not just so we feel better. We need rest for actual creation of what we're going to need the next day.

Every human being must have boundaries in order to have successful relationships or a successful performance in life.

In the end, as a leader, you are always going to get a combination of two things: what you create and what you allow.

Good pain is pain in the service of a purpose. Bad pain is pain endured because we are resisting a needed growth step.

Part of executive functions is the ability to look to a goal deadline and assess where an organization is in meeting it.

When you encourage someone, it literally changes their brain chemistry to be able to perform... sends fuel to the brain.

A person who hasn't grieved a significant loss has unfinished business inside and can cause others great grief as a result.

Dating is about finding out who you are and who others are. If you show up in a masquerade outfit, neither is going to happen.

There is a difference between solitude and isolation. One is connected and one isn't. Solitude replenishes, isolation diminishes.

I think that God will provide opportunities and people and experiences, and everything we need to date and ultimately to find the one.

To get greater than 100% return on a growth step, give up defensiveness. Defensiveness stifles performance, and destroys relationships.

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