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In education, parody is obsolete.
To feel controlled is to lose interest.
The race to win turns us all into losers.
Punishments erode relationships and moral growth.
The Legacy of Behaviorism: Do this and you'll get that.
Maximum difficulty isn't the same as optimal difficulty.
Learning is something students do, NOT something done to students.
Grades are a subjective rating masquerading as an objective evaluation.
When was the last time you spent the entire day with only 42 year olds?
Do rewards motivate people? Absolutely. They motivate people to get rewards.
Trying to be number one and trying to do a task well are two different things.
Unconditional parenting: Moving from Rewards and Punishments to Love and Reason.
Being a team player should not imply a demand for simple obedience and conformity.
If a child is off-task...mayb e the problem is not the child...maybe it's the task.
To control students is to force them to accommodate to a preestablished curriculum.
There are different kinds of motivation, and the kind matters more than the amount.
Educational success should be measured by how strong your desire is to keep learning.
Grades dilute the pleasure that a student experiences on successfully completing a task.
Punishments and rewards are two sides of the same coin and that coin doesn't buy you much.
Children learn how to make good decisions by making decisions, not by following directions.
Very few things are as dangerous as a bunch of incentive-driven individuals trying to play it safe.
To be well-educated is to have the desire as well as the means to make sure that learning never ends.
Whoever said there's no such thing as a stupid question never looked carefully at a standardized test.
Saying you taught it but the student didn't learn it is like saying you sold it but the customer didn't buy it.
We can't value only what is easy to measure; measurable outcomes may be the least important results of learning.
Educators remind us that what counts in a classroom is not what the teacher teaches; it’s what the learner learns.
When we do things that are controlling, whether intentional or not, we are not going to get those long-term outcomes.
If unconditional love and genuine enthusiasm are present, praise isn't necessary. If they're absent, praise won't help.
The overwhelming number of teachers ...are unable to name or describe a theory of learning that underlies what they do.
If children feel safe, they can take risks, ask questions, make mistakes, learn to trust, share their feelings, and grow.
Assessments should compare the performance of students to a set of expectations, never to the performance of other students.
How we feel about our kids isn't as important as how they experience those feelings and how they regard the way we treat them.
How can we do our best when we are spending our energies trying to make others lose - and fearing that they will make us lose?
The value of a book about dealing with children is inversely proportional to the number of times it contains the word behavior.
Students should not only be trained to live in a democracy when they grow up; they should have the chance to live in one today.
Contrary to what you think, your company will be a lot more productive if you refuse to tolerate competition among your employees.
Independence is useful, but caring attitudes and behaviors shrivel up in a culture where each person is responsible only for himself.
If faculty would relax their emphasis on grades, this might serve not to lower standards but to encourage an orientation toward learning.
We learn most readily, most naturally, most effectively, when we start with the big picture - precisely when the basics don't come first.
Children, after all, are not just adults-in-the-making. They are people whose current needs and rights and experiences must be taken seriously.
Social psychology has found the more you reward people for doing something, the more they tend to lose interest in whatever they had to do to get the reward.
Trying to do well and trying to beat others are two different things. Excellence and victory are conceptually distinct . . . and are experienced differently.
Punishment and reward proceed from basically the same psychological model, one that conceives of motivation as nothing more than the manipulation of behavior.
Standardized testing has swelled and mutated, like a creature in one of those old horror movies, to the point that it now threatens to swallow our schools whole.
Most of us would protest that of course we love our children without any strings attached. But what counts is how things look from the perspective of the children
When test scores go up, we should worry, because of how poor a measure they are of what matters, and what you typically sacrifice in a desperate effort to raise scores.
John Dewey reminded us that the value of what students do 'resides in its connection with a stimulation of greater thoughtfulness, not in the greater strain it imposes.
In outstanding classrooms, teachers do more listening than talking, and students do more talking than listening. Terrific teachers often have teeth marks on their tongues.
We have so much to cover and so little time to cover it. Howard Gardner refers to curriculum coverage as the single greatest enemy of understanding. Think instead about ideas to be discovered.
You have to give them unconditional love. They need to know that even if they screw up, you love them. You don't want them to grow up and resent you or, even worse, parent the way you parented them.